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"A household residing in North London is looking for an extraordinary and experienced tutor to guide their smallest child on his first steps to growing into an British gentleman."

When reading this post, you might easily overlook the phrase "initial stages" as mere an expression.

Yet, it might be the most significant element of this distinctive position posting, as it attempts to recruit a mentor for a 12-month-old.

Many of applications have now been received since the unidentified family published their request for the £180k-a-year tutor, who has to be "someone very special".

In recent few weeks, the advert has gained notice throughout the news, with several asking why?

Progressive Approach

The CEO, head and founder of an education consultancy, which is assisting the family in their quest, explained that in spite of first scepticism, he considered the idea "visionary", and "advanced".

When he spoke with the family, he said they recognized the unconventional nature of their request, and how immature their son is.

Nevertheless, they stated that they "were unwilling to delay any longer" to engage a tutor, as they had waited until their firstborn was five, and by that age "cultural bias had already taken hold".

But what did the family indicate by "cultural predisposition"?

It's "all-encompassing", Adam responded. "The way you eat, how you speak".

He stated the elder child had picked up "extremely delicate, non-verbal cues" from the family, and had adopted their cultural ways. The family explained to the consultant they hoped to prevent the same situation to happen again with their infant.

The intention: To engage a British tutor, who should speak with RP, to influence the baby right from the beginning.

Natural Absorption

"A lot of the development at the start here is kind of osmotic," said the CEO.

It's through this osmosis that the family are expecting the child will pick up the UK customs they aim to impart.

Adam said the tutor had to be somebody who studied at "the appropriate educational institutions – the same kinds of schools as the family aspire to send their son to".

"The tutor must be the suitable individual, they'll be carrying out things they don't even know they're doing, just naturally," he said.

Cost Not Relevant

The family told Adam the chosen tutor should preferably also have knowledge of or enthusiasm in horse riding, winter sports, the arts and musical activities so as to inspire the child in a broad spectrum of passions.

More than that though, he stated the family wanted the tutor to enrol the child on a range of courses so the child would be "horseback riding and picking up an tool by the time they are about three years old".

In the family's view, helping their son develop into a "English gentleman" will bring about achievement and open doors.

"Taking into account the advantages and disadvantages of that, because it's definitely a social class indicator," he comments.

Yet, notwithstanding all this tutelage in "UK identity", could the child pick up alleged cultural leaning from the international family he lives with in any case?

"Yes", answered Adam. "They know this could fail, but they've simply adopted the perspective of, 'we should try and we should start as quickly as we can', because the price of it is irrelevant," he stated.

Impractical

A number of in the private teaching field who have similar reservations.

Peter Cui, chief executive of a tutoring service, who provides individual instructors, commented that "the journey of embracing two identities, or in fact, forming one's identity, is something that must be experienced personally, not designed."

Peter wrote that he had relocated from Asia to the Britain at the period of seven, and had been brought up knowing and practicing dual heritages. He went on to study at a prestigious UK institution.

"The concept that one individual can function as a representation of Britishness, an individual who can in some way transfer the characteristics of a UK sophisticate upon a infant child, seems to me optimistic and unrealistic," he stated.

"In my experience, having a quintessentially British tutor from infancy will does not automatically produce the result they want.

"I wasn't provided with such a figure, and nevertheless I have been privileged enough to enjoy many of the experiences they desire for their son."

He stated: "The fact is, cultural identity cannot be dictated from the external environment; it must be selected, and it must originate internally."

Purchasing UK Culture

Naturally, Britishness is something Adam hopes can be instructed – and sold.

"I believe the situation that the international society holds us in this respect is something that we should be cherishing|valuing|appreciating